"The most critical moment in love and dating is when you encounter someone you're attracted to. This moment becomes particularly dangerous when you meet someone you're drawn to amidst feelings of scarcity and fear. It's at this juncture that you might find yourself tempted to compromise your standards and boundaries, driven by the underlying instinct to avoid anything that could potentially jeopardize the connection.
The anxiety of potentially losing this person may lead you to overextend yourself in an attempt to please them, hoping that by making them happy, they'll stay. Unfortunately, this often results in over-giving while under-communicating your own needs, creating a toxic dynamic. This harmful pattern can leave you feeling emotionally drained from constant giving, all while your true desires remain unexpressed and unrecognized."
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